tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2543589411942653440.post2409134414705279811..comments2023-10-22T07:14:49.554-07:00Comments on Learning to Survive Sexual Abuse: Someone Needs To HelpLarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16061858832112755993noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2543589411942653440.post-54307091868086961112012-04-13T21:17:41.334-07:002012-04-13T21:17:41.334-07:00Those are some of the most inspirational words tha...Those are some of the most inspirational words that I have heard in a long time, believe it or not! Thank you! And it means the world that you find my blog inspirational! Thank you for taking the time to comment and I try to respond to all of my comments! :)Larahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16061858832112755993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2543589411942653440.post-7082837508650512992012-04-12T20:22:32.702-07:002012-04-12T20:22:32.702-07:00I remember feeling so confused and afraid when my ...I remember feeling so confused and afraid when my ex first sexually assaulted me. I wasnt even sure it was rape as i was unable to comprehend that someone I used to trust, who used to be like my best friend and was with for 3 years could be capable of such an act.<br /><br />Even after reporting I felt so alone until I came across blogs similar to yours that made me realise im not alone in my experience.<br /><br />in your current situation you'll figure out what you want to do. and whatever you decide do it for you. and dont be self critical. I'm talking less to the guy I was intimate with but he doesnt realise i have an issue with it as I'm not interested in a relationship and he's aware of that. In my case I wasnt exactly straightforward which is something I guess I should work.<br /><br />anyways Thanks for taking the time to respond. and blogs like yours are actually an inspiration to me.r33nahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13349427342678944855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2543589411942653440.post-49804181750675906152012-04-12T15:32:41.960-07:002012-04-12T15:32:41.960-07:00Thank you so much for your kind words! It means a ...Thank you so much for your kind words! It means a lot! I'm sorry that you are going through similar things, but honestly, it is nice to know that I am not alone in this kind of situation.<br /><br />Thank you. :)Larahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16061858832112755993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2543589411942653440.post-77870610359810127572012-04-11T20:03:10.570-07:002012-04-11T20:03:10.570-07:00everything you feel ; ashamed, confused and embarr...everything you feel ; ashamed, confused and embarrassed are normal. <br /><br />on one hand, i was also happy that I was able to make out with a guy after the sexual assault, as it took me awhile to let myself be in a situation that involved intimacy.<br /><br />In my situation I didnt want a relationship either, but yet I didnt like that he texts or calls me when he wants to make out as it's kinda one sided.. and i feel like he doesnt care about how i feel.<br /><br />Don't be hard on yourself and there is nothing to be ashamed about.. and well i guess its not advice you need but prob someone to talk to so you could figure things out.. i have friends who similar to your best friend just say something and i feel like they're completely disregarding how i feel, and that leaves me feeling worse than i felt before i spoke to them about it..r33nahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13349427342678944855noreply@blogger.com