Wow. I learned a HUGE lesson tonight. When it comes to sexual abuse, do NOT expect others to completely understand. It is nice that people will try, but they can not possibly understand unless they have been through it before. Sure, they're advice is great and can help a ton, but they still don't know. They don't know what it FEELS like.
I learned in the beginning that I need to let people help me. I tried to do everything by myself. It didn't work.
So, lesson learned. Let people help you, and don't expect them to completely understand, but do know that these special people do love you and want to help.